The first step is to acknowledge that a good life does not happen on its own. It is not a fluke of random incidents (or accidents) or destiny that make a good life. You make your life a good life. You. Nobody else.
But there is more to life and what a human is, and this is where the HAL Philosophy, the Progression Work and the HAL Psychology become important tools in generating the new approaches to life.
To be able to make a good life, for yourself and the ones around you, new progressive ways of perceiving others are needed. You need a new approach to society, to your career and to yourself as a human being wanting to take control of your life, developing it into a good one.